Ready for a New Year’s Hookup?
I should have posted this a few days ago to get you guys ready, but there’s still and always will be time. Over the past week or so, I’ve been using Adult Friend Finder non-stop and getting ready for a New Year’s “date.” Now, I’ve been a member of AFF on an off for almost 9 years now. I’ve used them all, Yahoo/AOL chatrooms (really good in the early 2000’s), craigslist (nothing but spammers now) and other sex sites as well. There is not a single site that has gotten me laid more times than Adult Friend Finder! Because of the amount of people on the site, it is the absolute best hookup site on the net! I currently have a year long membership that paid for itself (what I would have paid for a nice dinner date to maybe get laid) in the first week! Now, the rest of the year is “free” lol. Right now is the absolute best time to be on the site because of the holiday season. No one wants to be alone during Christmas, but especially New Years. Plus it’s cold right now. Why do you think more babies are born in September than any other month? 9 months of pregnancy = Sex in January. Catch my drift? Aside from Valentine’s day, New Year’s eve is really the day that people want to feel loved and wanted. Yes, these women are looking for some holiday companionship, but ultimately, there’s no B.S. – They are looking for sex. So, you’ve got two days left until New Year’s eve, then 365 days remaining next year that women are still looking to fuck. As someone who has hooked up with over a dozen girls on the site, I’m going to give you some tips to help you land a New Years date. Like I said before, if you miss that opportunity, no big deal. Women are on the site all year long still looking for sex lol. Now this “guide” is for men only. Women, you know you don’t have to do a damn thing to get laid lol.
TIPS:
1. Sign up! The best value is the yearly membership, but if you’re on a budget, try it for a month and see how it works out for you. You have the option of Gold or Silver plan. I always pick the Gold. Why? One, it tells ladies that you’re serious and you get more search options and functionality on the site. Think of how much you’d be paying for a dinner date, then trust me, you won’t think twice about paying for a gold membership.
2. Fill out your profile as much as possible and include a picture. Describe what you’re looking for and what you have to offer. Now most guys include pics of their cock and body in their profile and that’s fine if you’re hung and look great, but women ultimately want to see your face. For those who want to be discreet, you don’t need include your face pic in your profile, but when sending an email to someone, send your face pic. Why? Because 99.9% of the time, the girl you’re emailing is going to ask for one. By sending it in advance, you speed up the process. Remember, we have two days to get someone for New Years, so you don’t want to waste time emailing back and forth.
3. Use the search functions and search for what you’re looking for in a 50 mile radius (of course more if you’re willing to drive further.) Normally, you’re going to be coming to them, or meeting halfway somewhere, so 50 miles is a good starting point to get a decent amount of women in your search results.
4. Email as many girls that you think – A.) match what you’re looking for, B.) that you think you have a shot with. When a girl says she’s only looking for guys with 10 inches, well, I’m not going to even try to email her lol. I don’t fall in her category, so I move on. Same goes for a woman who says “No single men.” You want to only email women you actually think you could have a connection with or you’ll be wasting time. It’s just like “real” life. Approach women that you feel you could have a chance with. HUGE TIP: Do not send blanket emails! They’re so easy to catch and women hate that. You’ll definitely not get a response if you send the same email to everyone, it’s just too obvious. Don’t just say “Hey, you’re hot, we should hookup. Hit me up on yahoo….” Take a few minutes and personalize your email. Briefly talk about yourself, talk about her profile, what you like about it, what you like about her pics and why you think you match what she’s looking for. It lets them know that you read what they wrote and that you’re attentive. Trust me, that goes a long way.
5. Be prepared to give women your online contact information right away. When sending an email through the AFF system, also give them your real email address and a handle to chat in real time, either yahoo, aol, icq, etc. You don’t want to be emailing back and forth. You want to talk to them in real time to get things moving along. Once that happens, then your chances of actually meeting are greatly increased. I always end my initial emails with something like “Do you have yahoo? Here’s my ID, we should chat. I’d love to talk with you and see if there’s a connection.” I would refrain from giving out your phone # in your initial email. It looks desperate and women are rarely, if ever going to call someone from just an email. Wait until you actually start chatting with them to give that out. TIP: Get a google voice account (it’s free). Then you can give women your google telephone # and forward that number to any other phone, i.e. your cell phone, land line. Trust me, last thing you want is some clingy girl that you had nsa sex with calling you all the time. Get a google voice account.
6. Once you start chatting online, well you’re on your own. If you’ve gotten that far, the woman is definitely interested, so your goal is to work towards asking her to meet. Don’t get too pervy right away (unless she starts it), make her comfortable talking with you, but also remember – you met her on a sex site and she’s ultimately looking for sex and that’s what you want to work towards. Once she trusts that you’re not some psycho, you should be in like flynn.
Now get to work! Join Adult Friend Finder right now and get some great nsa sex to end the year!
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